When “Wanting It” Isn’t the Same as Wanting to Become HER  Guest - Olivia Oneid

When “Wanting It” Isn’t the Same as Wanting to Become HER Guest - Olivia Oneid

When “Wanting It” Isn’t the Same as Wanting to Become HER  Guest - Olivia OneidOlivia Oneid
Published on: 28/01/2026

There’s a difference between wanting to do the thing and wanting to become the person. One of my clients said something really important recently. She told me she wants to prioritize her nutrition and training this year because she wants to, not because she has to, or because it’s the only thing holding her together. That distinction matters.

Mindset
Why Focusing on the Solution Gets You Further Than Focusing on the Struggle - Nat Galloway

Why Focusing on the Solution Gets You Further Than Focusing on the Struggle - Nat Galloway

Why Focusing on the Solution Gets You Further Than Focusing on the Struggle - Nat GallowayNat Galloway
Published on: 26/01/2026

Focusing on the problem won’t help you find a solution We all do it. “I’m so out of shape.” “My partner never listens.” “I’ll never hit my goals.” Those thoughts feel real. They feel justified. But thinking and talking that way doesn’t move you forward. It reinforces being stuck.

Mindset
The Happiness of the Pursuit - Nat Galloway

The Happiness of the Pursuit - Nat Galloway

The Happiness of the Pursuit - Nat GallowayNat Galloway
Published on: 21/01/2026

Everyone talks about the pursuit of happiness, as if happiness is something you arrive at one day if you run hard enough. But happiness isn’t found at the finish line. It’s built into the journey. Training works the same way.

Mindset
Ego, Strength, and the Illusion of Authority - Nat Galloway

Ego, Strength, and the Illusion of Authority - Nat Galloway

Ego, Strength, and the Illusion of Authority - Nat GallowayNat Galloway
Published on: 16/01/2026

One of the most common expressions of ego in the gym is this idea: “If someone doesn’t bench as much as me, their opinion is invalid.” It sounds ridiculous when said out loud, yet it quietly governs a lot of lifting culture.

Mindset