POV You're Fist Deep in The Pantry Again - Olivia Oneid

POV You're Fist Deep in The Pantry Again - Olivia Oneid

POV You're Fist Deep in The Pantry Again - Olivia OneidOlivia Oneid
Published on: 12/10/2026

Two different clients, two totally different weeks, told me almost the exact same story. One was standing in front of her cabinets, digging through them, looking for something sweet. The other was standing in front of the pantry, hand in a bag.....

Closing the Identity Gap: How to Build Consistency That Doesn't Depend on Motivation

Closing the Identity Gap: How to Build Consistency That Doesn't Depend on Motivation

Closing the Identity Gap: How to Build Consistency That Doesn't Depend on MotivationPaul Oneid
Published on: 28/09/2026

A while back I wrote about the Actor/Rester framework, the idea that people default to either pushing harder or pulling back under stress. If you read that piece and recognized your own pattern, here's the next question worth asking.....

Tracking Isn’t the Skill - Olivia Oneid

Tracking Isn’t the Skill - Olivia Oneid

Tracking Isn’t the Skill - Olivia OneidOlivia Oneid
Published on: 28/08/2026

I'm a nutrition coach. I'm 15 weeks pregnant. And I haven't tracked a single gram of food in almost two months. I went into this pregnancy fully planning to. I had the whole picture in my head…

The question I asked 3 clients this week - Olivia Oneid

The question I asked 3 clients this week - Olivia Oneid

The question I asked 3 clients this week - Olivia OneidOlivia Oneid
Published on: 17/08/2026

This week I had three separate conversations that all circled the same thing: what does "doing your best" look like when your life isn't cooperating?